What you call 'formalities'...
Celebrating St. Francis de Sales - 24th Jan, 2017
Heb 10: 1-10; Mk 3:31-35
I remember, quite some time back, when I got to know a new person in life... it was a strange experience. The person would apologise for even a small or simple fault. The person would endlessly go on giving explanations and justifications for some thing that happened or something that did not happen - at times to the extent of wearying me. However, I was totally aware those were 'necessary formalities' of politeness, the relationship being at the initial stages. The readings today seem to speak of a similar experience of what you call 'formalities' with God! When our relationship with God has still not set off on its way to maturity, we would weary God with our formalities of rituals, rites and legalities. But when we build a true and personal relationship with God, we would mind nothing more than a bonding - like mother-child, like brother-brother, like brother-sister, like friends and so on!
St. Francis of Sales, is known to be a person of such material: gentle, God-loving and intimately related to God, a person of sweet and deep spirituality. He could attract people with his sweetness, direct them to the same, everything in a deep relationship with the Lord. The challenge that he poses us today is to grow out of 'formalities' with God as soon as possible and concentrate on, listening to God's words and living it everyday.