Sunday, December 24, 2017

SEVEN LESSONS FROM THE CHRISTMAS CRIB

CHRISTMAS 2017

Christmas is a time of joy! One of the joys of Christmas, apart from the Santaclaus, the Christmas tree, the stars and the sweets is the Crib. We enjoy looking at the cribs made in the Church or in homes and many of us enjoy making it ourselves at home! The Crib is a phenomenon from the thirteenth century, to be precise from the year 1223 when Francis of Assisi made the first crib in a place called Greccio. 

St. Francis infact thought of this idea, to bring back our attention on the event of the birth of Christ, from all the mere material distractions like the food and decorations. What a novel way of reminding of the First Christmas, we need to thank God for that intuitive saint who has initiated this beautiful tradition. Why am I speaking of the Crib... it is from there I wish to offer the reflection for this wonderful feast. 

Seven lessons from the Christmas Crib:
It has always been a moment of surprise and wonder to look at cribs made with interest, each depicting an scene so different and novel. But there are certain characters of the Crib that do not change at all - the traditional characters of the Crib. Have you realised, that each of them have something important and specific to communicate to us? Let us listen to the lesson that each of them give, I wish to present seven of those lessons. I leave it to your choice, to pick up whichever appeals to you more than the others, and see how you can make it part of your life, to be part of the Crib too!

Lesson 1 : From the Shepherds - Simplicity
The Shepherds have an essential place in the Crib. We cannot have a traditional crib without them. They were the first ones to be informed of the birth of the Child and they were the first ones to arrive on the scene, not the great Herod or the great high priests and the chief priests, not the learned and the rich - but the simple shepherds, smelling of their sheep and tired due to the night watch. Our simplicity takes us closer to God, the God of the Simplicity.

Lesson 2: From the Beasts of the Stable - Selfless Giving
Without being very conscious about it, we give an important place to the beasts, the cattle, the donkeys and the cows in the stable. They were playing very important role at the stable during the original Christmas, they were keeping the mother and the child warm, at the delivery and later. The warmth of the cattle was such an important element for the child - just imagine the beasts were not even aware of the good that they were doing. Look at the challenge that they throw at us: to give, and never to be conscious that you are giving. That selfless giving will take us to the Crib, to God's presence easily. 

Lesson 3: From the Angels - Service
All the traditional cribs have angels around, infact they were there all the time. The angels took messages to Mary, to Joseph before the nativity; they took messages to Joseph about the need to move and to protect; the angels were around to do what the Lord wanted, they are forever at the service of the Lord. When we are at the service of our neighbours, we to becomes Angels, Angels of the Lord taking what the Lord wants us to deliver to others. The more service minded we become, the more closer we get to the Lord, who came to serve and not to be served.

Lesson 4: From the Magi - Seeking Truth
The Wisemen who come to close the intense period of Christmas with their visit on the day of Epiphany, are another important part of the Crib.  They come seeking for the Lord, they come seeking for the Truth, they come seeking for the One whom everything points to. They were seeking the Lord. This is what has drastically disappeared in the world today. The world is in no way excited about the coming of Christ, they are only excited about the holidays and the discounts. When we seek the Lord, we reach the crib! When we truly seek the Lord, everything around will bring us to God!

Lesson 5: From dear St. Joseph - Silence
Joseph listened and carried out orders; he spoke nothing. The Silent protector of the Son of God and the Mother of God. What a beautiful role he plays in the Crib, even there quiet and peaceful, standing by with that manly gait, not seeking the limelight or trying to steal the show, controlling crowds or creating furore. He was not dictating terms to Mary, much less to God placing his demands for the role that he has to play. He was silent, a silent collaborator with the divine will. When we are silent, we begin to sense the divine presence within and all around us.

Lesson 6: From loving Mother Mary - Surrender
Look at Mary now in the Crib - a mother's sense of fulfillment in her eyes and the loving gaze that spreads on her new born son. That sense of fulfillment comes after a long process of surrender - the young maiden surrendering her life and all her dreams, the spouse in promise surrendering her marriage and family, a loving mother surrendering all her expectations. When we surrender, we see the Lord acting in and through us with mighty power and grace.

Lesson 7: From the little New Born - Self Emptying.
This little new born is so helpless. Can you imagine is the Word in and through which the entire universe was created - yes that Word is made flesh and is seen here as a simple, helpless infant at the mercy of the people and the beasts around. The Self Emptying of the Son of God begins here. St. Paul would speak of it later in the letter to the Philippians - from the sky to the Crib and from the Crib to the Cross...it is a great self emptying and it was because of that, God gave him a name above every other name. It is only self emptying that will give us an identity as sons and daughters of God, not our achievements and our pride, not our riches and our titles.  

Of these seven characters here, which one would you like to be...what lesson would you like to take to heart? Begin from today and grow in that virtue, the Lord will be soon born in your heart too! Then it will be Christmas all your life!

Let us finish with a small incident I have always loved to narrate, about that christmas play the nursery children practiced for weeks to put up for the parents. The day came and the play began. Mary with her stomach so big and Joseph with the bundles on his shoulders, knock at the first inn and the inn keeper shouts "No place in the inn". The second inn and the same response: "sorry, the inn is full". And the third house, the little chap peeps out and says, "no room in the inn please" and when Mary and Joseph turn away with a sad face, the little chap steps out. Everyone was surprised because that was not what they practiced. The little fellow looking at the sad face of Mary, said, "true there is no room in the inn, but there is little space in my room! you can come!"

This is Christmas - to tell the Lord, 'the world says there is no place for God here, but I tell you Lord there is space in my heart. Come!' And the Lord will come and will be born in our hearts!

Saturday, December 23, 2017

A JOURNEY TO INTEGRITY - ADVENT SUNDAY 4

Open, Observe and Obey!

24th December, 2017
2 Sam 7:1-5,8-12,14,16; Rom 16: 25-27; Lk 1: 26-38

We have come to the end of the Journey we began 22 days back... the journey to integrity! Of course, we do not deceive ourselves, it is a life long journey! We just made a journey of understanding it in different dimensions that the Word presented to us. Today as we come to the culmination of the Journey, we are given the ultimate lesson that this journey gives, in keeping with the event that led us through this journey, the event of incarnation.  

The first challenge is to Open, to open our eyes, to open our ears, to open our hands, to open our hearts and to open our doors! These days while there are are so many problems in the world and all around us, there is a big danger that we can forget the presence of the Lord, we may even unconsciously question God's presence - the Lord says, no! I am here, right here. Open your eyes and see! As you think about a lot of things, possibly give your contribution to the betterment of things, do your mite in getting things in order, you might think you are doing a great favour to God. Just like David thought, he was the one to after all build a house for the Lord. The Lord reminds him and says: open your eyes and see...all that I have done for you! Become aware of the truth...in and through all these things, I am building a house for you. The Lord God of history is active and alive even amidst the worse situations of today. All that we need to see is OPEN our eyes and see, open our ears and hear, open our hands and stretch out to each other, open our hearts and breathe in the presence of God. 

For that we need to Observe things around, persons around, events around. Not just see, not just hear, not just blabber with words that mean nothing, but take time and observe. Observe how things are shaping up, how things are changing colours, how things are evolving. When we take that time and patience to observe, we shall be enlightened by a revelation from God. When Nathan spoke to David, when the Angel spoke to Mary, they did not just hear, they observed, meditated and received the revelation that was there!

Then comes the third and the most important challenge - Obey! To obey the Lord even if God's will does not match with mine, specially when it does not match. When they match we find it a pleasure to follow the will of God. When they do not, then we complain, groan and moan. It is specially when our wish and God's will does not match and we do it willingly, there emerges a revolution, a great thing for which the entire generations will keep praising the Lord. But it begins from Obedience!

Mary and Joseph lived their lives as ultimate examples of this challenge - and the result: we have the Son of God who came to save us! Let us open ourselves, observe with our hearts and obey with all our being, we shall see the House of the Lord built on earth. 

CHRISTMAS NOVENA - Day 9 - 24th December

O Morning Star...


The 7 O-Antiphons are over with yesterday...
but the Novena ends today...with the rising of the Morning Star!

The Lord is not just near...but the Lord is here!!!
We celebrate the Rising Star, the Morning Star that announces the break of day!
The Lord comes to rule in our hearts, not just in the world...
Let us prepare ourselves..for the Lord is here.

Friday, December 22, 2017

A JOURNEY TO INTEGRITY - ADVENT 2017 - DAY 21

Integrity... to see the hand of God

23rd December
Mal 3: 1-4, 23-24 ; Lk 1:57-66

It is a special gift, to see the hand of God accompanying us, only then can we join ours with God's. That is integrity, to walk hand in hand with God. 

Look at the events in the Word today: What would this child be, every one wondered! What would I grow up to be? What would be my destiny? Aren't these many of our thoughts too, atleast as we grow up! When a child is born a bundle of mystery is born. We would do well to receive it with that reverence and wait on it to unfold itself in its own time! But at times that seems very puzzling, or even frightening as if we are at the mercies of something or someone else - Christian hope is not exactly that!

Our sense of mystery does not come from the mere fact that the prospects are hidden, but from the truth that it lies in the hands of God, who has willed us into existence, with a specific plan for each of us. John the Baptist was foretold as the Elijah to come and prepare the way; the son born of a young maiden was foretold to come and rule the world forever; each of our birth too has been forethought by God from all eternity. 

The hand of the Lord accompanies us, as it did with John and with all other persons of God we come across. It would be our task to recognise this Hand in everything, accept its pointings and walk with love in justice and truth! Can we behold that hand of the Lord in our personal lives, make it the guiding star that would lead us to that manger of fulfillment, fulfillment of all promises. Let us walk with out hands in the hand of the Lord, that's integrity in sum.

In self help theories they say, 21 days is the time needed to create a habit! Ending this 21st day of reflection on the life of the integrity, let us pray and hope INTEGRITY becomes a habit in our lives! 

CHRISTMAS NOVENA - Day 8 - 23rd December

O Emmanuel

O Emmanuel, our king and our lawgiver,
the hope of the nations and their Saviour:
Come and save us, O Lord our God.


Based on the famous prophecy of Isaiah 7:14, the title Emmanuel is the key to the mystery of incarnation. 

The symbol is the virgin with the child in the manger. It is not just any child, but the promised salvation of the God of the universe, the king who has come to meet his subjects to make them co-heirs to his throne.

The prayer is to save us, as the Lord our God... in simple words it is to STAY WITH US, to live with us. to sanctify us, to make us worthy of God and of God's great big family.

Thursday, December 21, 2017

A JOURNEY TO INTEGRITY - ADVENT 2017 - DAY 20

Integrity... to grow in gratitude

22nd December
1 Sam 1: 24-28: Lk 1: 46-56


We are presented with two grateful hearts and that one saintly song! It is indeed a saintly song to sing in exultation for the great things that God does to us. Today we have Hannah and Mary singing to their hearts' content. Only a grateful heart will have reasons to exult and only a heart that finds reasons to exult is truly saintly. There can be no sorry saints; even the worst affected of all exults in the great things that the Lord has done for her or for him. Mary is an epitome of such a saintliness and Hannah is her foreshadow!

Mary and Hannah have a lot in common: they bore their child in strange circumstances, both ran the risk of being misjudged, both realised that the Lord had seen with pity on their lowliness and both offered their child to God without reserve. Hannah sang the song of exultation and Mary adapted it! The most important of all similarities is their grateful breaking forth into a song of exultation.

As we near the Christmas day, and the culmination of this journey to integrity that we began, the Word today invites us to count our blessings and name them one by one. We will be surprised to see, how long and how many of them escaped our attention! Let us sing from the depths of our hearts a song that is new and glorious: My soul magnifies the Lord! That is a sure way to integrity, growing in gratitude!

CHRISTMAS NOVENA - Day 7 - 22nd December

O King of Nations - O Rex Gentium

O King of the nations, and their desire,
the cornerstone making both one:
Come and save the human race,
which you fashioned from clay.

Based on Isaiah 9:6, 2:4 and 28:16, the King of the nations is a yearning of the people of Israel. They wanted Yahweh to be their king always, even when they had a human king ruling them. That is why they did not give in to the Emperor worship that was so widespread in the dominant cultures of their times. God is the king, forever and over all!

The Symbol is the crown, and some times even the sceptre, that signifies the central place that God has in our personal and universal history; and the authority that rests solely with God.

The prayer is for SALVATION, to save the human kind, from slaveries of sin and death to the freedom of the children of God, for that is what we are, children created in the image and likeness of God. It is to grow in this identity and dignity that the coming of the Lord invites us.

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

A JOURNEY TO INTEGRITY - ADVENT 2017 - DAY 19

Integrity... to rejoice in the Lord

21st December, 2017
Song 2: 8-14 (or) Zeph 3:14-18; Lk 1: 39-45

To rejoice in the Lord - not all can do that! Only those who have yearned for the Lord's will, those who have been seeking the presence of the Lord and those who have allowed the Lord to work on them, in short, as we were called to yesterday, only those who have surrendered themselves to the Lord can truly rejoice in the Lord! 

Rejoicing in the Lord is not a mere external show or temporary state of life, it is an interior disposition and a permanent mind set. Those who truly rejoice in the Lord, do so even at the times of the difficulty and struggle. My mind goes out to two unforgettable people whom I have encountered in life: a young person, bedridden for years, but always with a holy smile on the face never willing to be pitied at; and another elderly person, who was paralysed one side, who never liked to be even asked 'how are you', for according to him he was fine and blessed! I would wonder from where they drew their strength? Were they faking that smile or that positive attitude? No, they were people who had surrendered their life totally into the hands of the Lord. 

When we do so, when God matters much more than anything else in life, when God's will supersedes any other priority in my life, I will sense that interior joy and that permanent mind set, that makes me rejoice in the Lord, and rejoice always! That is integrity - remaining in the Lord always and rejoicing forever! 

CHRISTMAS NOVENA - Day 6 - 21st December

21st December: O Rising dawn

O Morning Star,
Splendour of light eternal and sun of righteousness:
Come and enlighten those who dwell in darkness and the shadow of death.

Based on Isaiah 9:2 and Isaiah 60:1-2, the title in Latin O Oriens, actually means literally O Rising Sun or Dawn, but for poetic sense translated as Morning Star, refers to the power of God's light to lead us from ignorance to knowledge and from mere knowledge to enlightenment. 

The Symbol is the Rising Sun, which dispels the darkness of the night and wakes the light of the morning, inviting all to life and activity. The coming of the Lord for us is a wake up call, an invitation to live as people of the light and not of darkness!

The prayer is for ENLIGHTENMENT, that in this world of confusion and crisis, confounding choices and staggering philosophies, we might remain always in the light of faith, that not only helps us see the Lord, but see with the eyes of the Lord (as Lumen Fidei instructs us).

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

A JOURNEY TO INTEGRITY - ADVENT 2017 - DAY 18

Integrity... to truly surrender to God

Third Wednesday in Advent
Is 7: 10-14; Lk 1: 26-38

The Word presents a contrast and a continuity between Ahaz and Mary. Within this contrast and continuity we can see three different dispositions to the action of the Lord in and through us. 

The first disposition is that of Rejection of the Lord - this is Ignorance, either malicious ignorance or simplistic ignorance, where the person is unaware or keeps himself or herself in a state of ignorance, failing to see the greatness of God at work all around. Here the person misses a state of grace the person can be blessed with.

The second disposition is that of trying to Appease the Lord - this is Indifference, always malicious! The previous disposition atleast we know that the person has rejected God and the person might or might not come to know the Lord some day. But this disposition is very deceptive and pretends even to take the Lord for a ride. That is why Isaiah gets furious with Ahaz and the people of his nature - he says they try the Lord's patience! That is, they try to have their way trying to now and then act as if, as if they are obedient to the Lord! This is radically against the third disposition!

The third disposition we can think of is that of true Surrender to the Lord - this is Integrity. Just as Mary does in the Gospel today, though she did not perfectly understand the situation around her, she trusted in the promise given by the Lord and totally surrenders herself to the Lord: behold the handmaid of the Lord, be it done unto me according to your word. 

This is our call to stay far from Ignorance and Indifference and grow in Integrity, that is a true surrender into the hands of God. When we learn to do that we become people highly favoured, full of grace, mother, brothers and sisters of Jesus, the Immanuel, God with us.